Showing Up Like A Loser

Most people are looking for some sort of confidence booster, some logic, some secret…

They’re searching for something outside of themselves and their own actions, to be able to feel more confident.

To feel better about themselves.

The reason we have such a massive problem in this country with depression and all these various forms of pharmaceutical mood boosters…

Is because most people are just losers.

And I don’t mean “loser” like the kid that got picked on at the playground…

I just mean that they have a losing mentality for their life.

You have to realize that every single day is a competition.

You either win or you lose, it’s black or white.

And if you continue to run away from this truth, then you deserve everything that comes with that decision.

The sadness, the darkness, the inner voice that won’t shut up…

You deserve it.

This is your consciousness screaming at you that something needs to change.

It’s not because there's something wrong with YOU necessarily.

It's something wrong with your thoughts and actions.

You're thinking the wrong thoughts and making the wrong moves, which means you’re going to get the wrong outcomes.

The reason you don't feel good about yourself is that you're not actively competing.

Well, actually, now that I think about it, you are actively competing…

You’re just losing in the competition

So I think how most people can start to understand why they don’t feel good about themselves is by looking at their day.

They wake up, they're on their phone.

They crawl out of bed.

They go and get some coffee, sit on their phone some more, and eventually head to work.

They’re on Facebook and Instagram the whole day, never getting anything truly productive done.

They skipped breakfast.

They ate some bullshit for lunch.

They skip the gym.

They watch Netflix.

They eat some crap for dinner.

They’re on their phone for the rest of the night.

And then they go to bed.

In what reality should you feel good about yourself if that’s how you’re leading your life?

You shouldn’t! You should feel like a piece of shit!

When I did this kind of BS, I deserved every single negative thought that came with it.

It's that simple.

Every single output in life has an input, and if you have an output that you don't like…

You feel like a piece of shit at the end of the day…

Or you feel lazy…

Or you don't feel good about yourself…

Just change the inputs!

Don’t take some stupid pills or smoke some shit just to make yourself feel better about yourself.

Stop running away from the truth!

Fuck man, I just wish someone drilled this into my head years ago, I would’ve saved so much time and I would be so much further ahead in life right now.

The best way to feel better about yourself comes from how you show up for yourself every single day.

Show up like a loser, and you should expect to feel like a loser.

Show up like a winner, and you should expect to feel like a winner.