STOP PAM!

One of my clients, Erin, has a saying that he’s taken to heart in his branding which I absolutely love…

He’s been saying “Stop PAM!” all over his posts, his podcasts, and pretty much all his content.

PAM is the Passive Aggressive Male.

If you really think about it, most of the problems you can face as a man is from being passive…

Out of shape? You’ve been passive with your fitness.

Broke? You’ve been passive with your hustle.

Zero women? You’ve been passive with approaching women.

It really is that simple, but for some reason, people try and overcomplicate the living hell out of their shortcomings in life.

Look, I understand there are socioeconomic advantages and disadvantages that some people are inherently born with.

A kid born in Compton versus a kid born in Scottsdale has a very different reality he experiences…

Two very different realities, two very different paradigms.

But here’s the thing, the Scottsdale kid is going to have shortcomings…

The Compton kid is going to have shortcomings…

It’s very messed up, especially where the kid is surrounded with awful influences that strip his purity away at a very young age.

This is the reality of life, and unfortunately, there’s not much we can do to change it.

However, if we can make a message loud enough, people hear it on both sides of the socioeconomic scale.

Here’s the message…

We have to label problems for what they are, and show men that an active aggressive approach can and will solve the problem

It’s about putting on your boots, rolling up your sleeves, and getting to work on solving the problem.

And most importantly…

It’s about telling men to not stop until the problem is solved, and not complain about the amount of work it takes to solve that problem.

Cowboy up, homie.

Out of shape? You push yourself to your limit in workouts for months on end.

Broke? You work your face off to make a solid income and if you want more independence you pursue building your own business.

Zero women? You work on the two above problems while at the same time approaching every woman you see until you get comfortable with talking to women.

Sad? Create a connection and relationship with god and do some soul searching, seek knowledge from men who have what you want.

Is this an aggressive approach to life?

YES!

My guy Cody Jefferson said something that hit home for me because I connected with it so much…

For years people told me I was too much, I was too excessive, I was too aggressive with my mentality.

Well, why the hell do I have what almost everyone wants?

Why do I not have to worry about bills and can buy virtually everything I want (outside of excessive luxury items like an $80k watch)?

Why do I have a solid body that’s only going to get more impressive with time?

Why do I have women who desire me and find it very easy to approach any woman I see?

Why do I have a network filled with some of the smartest most successful people in my industry?

Because I was extremely aggressive with my approach to all these things, almost to a fault.

It’s only now in my life that I’ve learned how to not drag this aggressive nature into relationships and friendships and how to soften up my edges a bit.

Even more so, how to not beat myself up so much and give myself a little more gratitude and compassion.

The trouble I think most men who have this trait is that it removes peace from their life, but trust me there is a way to balance peace with aggression.

I’ll have to get into that another time.

But nonetheless, what got me here, and what’s going to get me to where I want to go is one thing and one thing only…

ACTIVE AGGRESSION.

One of the worst things we’re doing is beating this aggressiveness out of young boys, saying it’s toxic, it’s inconsiderate, it’s not good for society.

Everything about that is absolutely ridiculous and shameful.

Buckle up, I’m about to take us deep.

It’s “useful idiots” that are pushing this ideology which creates passivity in men.

And when I say “useful idiot” I’m very particular with that term.

Here’s the context…

I’m referencing an interview with Yuri Bezmenov, a former KGB agent, where he discussed the idea of ideological subversion and how Russia used it on the US.

Sun Tzu said it best in The Art Of War, the best way to defeat your enemy is to have them defeat themselves.

Ideological subversion is the idea that you implant ideologies into society to get itself to destroy itself from the inside out, instead of you attacking from the outside in…

The people who spread these ideas because they seem good on the surface, Yuri called them, “useful idiots.”

Let me explain…

It’s not the year 500, where we can just stroll into town and invade our enemy because fuck you, we want your resources.

There are treaties, foreign policies, and all sorts of trade agreements, that prevent us from being able to do that.

Which is for the betterment of society, in no way am I saying we should go back to our more savage ways.

But that has most definitely not removed the fact that some countries view other countries as their enemies.

So how do you defeat them? Well, you let them defeat themselves.

How do you do that?

One way is to get rid of aggression in men.

Think of every single revolution since the dawn of time…

LITERALLY, it was a group of angry men, who got aggressive, and took matters into their own hands.

If I wanted to destroy a country…

I would get rid of aggressive men…

Infiltrate and corrupt the government, effectively turning the politicians into puppets for my foreign policy…

All the while doing the exact opposite in my country so that over the course of 40-50 years, my country is running laps around the other country.

Take a good look around at the information which we’re seeing on a daily basis…

All this woke PC culture garbage that we’re seeing everywhere…

Everyone is equal…

Gender is something that’s subjective…

You can’t say anything that may offend someone…

I do not believe this is an agenda we came up with for the betterment of society.

I believe full-heartedly this was an ideology designed to get rid of aggression in men, and it just fits perfectly in the mold of being a psy-op from an outside entity.

Russia, China, Elites in society trying to create good little slaves, whoever the hell it is, bravo, because they’ve done a phenomenal job and their mission is succeeding.

Could I be wrong, sure!

But it’s a little too on-the-nose if you know what I mean.

Everyone is equal = removal of a dominance hierarchy

Gender is subjective = gender roles get confusing

Can’t say anything offensive = can’t speak the truth

All of these things contribute HEAVILY towards men being more passive because humans have a tendency to conform to GROUP THINK ideology

Go against the group ideology? Cast out, canceled, bye-bye.

So the people pushing this crap onto young men and society in general…

Yeah, useful idiots, they don’t even realize how much they’re screwing over our society as a whole.

Yes, I just took it to a global political level to help prove my point.

This is where my brain has a tendency to go because I like to think about things in the macro…

But let’s bring it down to earth for a moment, and talk about things between us men.

Ladies, you’re more than welcome to stick around, but this here is man talk.

Men, we have a duty to get rid of this passive-aggressive behavior in our lives.

First of all, so you can get what you want from life…

A beautiful woman as your life partner, financial freedom, a tribe of strong men you call your brothers, amazing kids to live out your legacy, and a life filled with adventure…

That’s what we all want, right?

I have pieces of that, and the goal is to have all of it, because I CAN have it all.

The only way you get it ALL is by being active-aggressive in your approach to all of these areas of life.

But even more so, you have to understand the responsibility of getting rid of all PAM behaviors isn’t just to yourself…

There’s something so much bigger at play.

It’s for the betterment of society as a whole.

Remember, a revolution is a group of angry men, who got aggressive, and took matters into their own hands.

Either you’re a part of the group of men who fought back against this passive-aggressive bullshit mentality that's been programmed into us…

Or you’re a part of the group who sat on their hands, being passive like you always are while one of the greatest spiritual battles of all time took place.

We have a duty as men to fix this shit.

Instead of complaining about the problems we’re experiencing, how about we actually be the change we wish to see in the world?

PAM behaviors are showing up in your life…

And PAM behaviors are the main thing stopping you from achieving what you want.

Want to know how to identify these behaviors?

Give my guy Erin a follow, he talks about it all the time on his IG.

I believe in his message and I think about it at such a deep level…

It’s not just about being able to get the girl, get the money, or get an awesome life…

It’s about your duty as a man…

To stop PAM!