Aug 2022 · 3 min
Visualization and Manifestation

Anything I’ve ever spent copious amounts of time visualizing has become a part of my reality.
It’s funny, my guy Wes Watson says that when you’re first starting out in any realm of endeavor, your vision will be shallow and materialistic.
When I first started in business, it was because I wanted to be rich.
When I first started dating, it was because I wanted sex.
When I first started hitting the gym, it was because I wanted to be jacked.
But this is just an indicator that you’re early in the process, maturing is increasing the depth behind WHY you do what you do.
Something interesting I was actually pondering the other day was Newton’s second law, which is…
Force = Mass x Acceleration
Force is an influence that can change the motion of an object
Mass is the quantity of matter in a physical body.
Acceleration is the rate of change of the velocity of an object with respect to time.
If you think about this, you see the simplicity of how to be able to create change for people.
It’s the amount of matter you possess (I’ll call this meaning or depth) multiplied by your increase in speed over time.
When our WHY is extremely surface level, our overall force is low.
But when we deepen that WHY, our mass or overall quantity of matter increases and we’re able to increase the amount of change we create in this world.
Back to the topic of visualization…
When I first started making visualization a part of my day-to-day life, I did it only to obtain material things.
Make no mistake about it, the shit works really well…
I wanted a beautiful high-rise apartment where I could watch the sunrise and sunset over Phoenix, and I got that.
I wanted suits in every color with a collection of Tom Ford fragrances, and I got that.
I wanted a murdered-out Porsche 911 with the rear light that wraps around the back, and I got that.
Anything I spent time thinking about and visualizing, I was able to create.
That’s why I don’t focus on any of the material stuff anymore…
Who cares, it’s easy.
I focus my visualization entirely on the character of the man I’m building right now.
My friend Dimitri and I were sharing some Steak when he was visiting the other week and he mentioned something that’s really been floating in my mind a lot lately.
“Imagine a 6’2”, ripped, reserved, stoic Nick. Hard to read, he generates intrigue, and girls want to see what he’s all about. A sly grin here and a good joke there and they’re hooked.”
Fuck man, that shit lit me up and it’s all I can think about lately.
Part of it is because of the women, I can’t deny that.
But more than anything…
That’s the motherfucker I would listen to!
That’s the guy I’ve been searching for my whole life, paying people tens of thousands of dollars to coach me.
Don’t get me wrong, this has helped me so much and it’s increased my overall acceleration in life tenfold.
But every single one of them was missing SOMETHING…
There’s not one single thing that I can think of which is more powerful to visualize and manifest than becoming THAT MAN.
THE ONE WHO’S MISSING NOTHING.